Another real-life workplace horror story to help illustrate what’s wrong with the corporate world and why we need to change. Soon, I will be building a case for why organizational teams need to be enlightened. Stay tuned for that. In the meantime, read on and be glad this didn’t happen to you:
“I worked in retail for several years for a national privately held company. I was a 23 year old regional customer service trainer, but I was based out of one store. The manager of the store had been transferred there from another state due to, in his words, “a dyke” being put in charge of his region who didn’t like men, especially him. Prior to that he had been transferred from yet another region, where a “dispute” with a “crazy” female employee had been the issue.
He began using the company delivery van to drive as his personal vehicle (his family only owned one car due to a recent bankruptcy), sometimes coming in so late in the morning that the delivery driver had to wait for him to arrive to begin work. He also began selling pot out of the store to college kids he met cruising the bars after work. He would take them around back to make the exchange where there were no security cameras, but he later would brag about it to some employees who were “cool”, so word spread quickly.
One day he called me into his office and told me a story about how he humiliated his former regional manager (the “dyke”) who he didn’t like. He also informed me that he had no qualms about humiliating any woman (or man) who “ratted” on him. He also began cracking jokes when I walked into management meetings like “wow, does anyone else smell fish?”. It was so absurd that at first I thought this couldn’t be happening. Another female coworker told me that he had approached her during a business trip and told her that she would have to sleep with him to keep her job and she had told him no. A few months after she told me, she was demoted and a male employee was promoted to take the position. She promptly quit. It was like something out of a textbook.
I quit too, mostly because I did not want to work for a company where this type of individual could go on seemingly unnoticed by management. Not long after, a long time employee wrote a detailed expose to the regional manager with specific incidents regarding abusive or harassing behaviour towards women, theft/abuse of company property and illegal drug use and distribution within the store and using the company van and requesting a full investigation by the corporate office.
The regional office transferred the manager to another region, again. No response was made to the letter, or any attempt to investigate the validity of the very specific claims. Later we heard that he quit to take another job, no doubt based on his long term experience as a manager at the store level. To me, this serves to demonstrate how the very first manager who failed to confront his bizarre behaviour in a constructive manner paved the way for the subsequent regional managers who were afraid that surfacing his issues would bring a lawsuit out of the woodwork for all of the previous oversights. This in time led to his becoming a liability passed on to another company through the fallacy of his long tenure with his employer.”